Thank you to my friend, Novus Lectio, for her nomination. As I may have mentioned before, she is an enviably curious-minded individual who fathoms truth in all places, taking on fascinating and noble pursuits of knowledge. Her blog is a veritable smorgasbord of poetry, artistic talent, stories and much, much more. Well worth checking out!
The Rulebook:
- Thank the person who nominated you.
- Post a quote for three consecutive days (1 quote for each day) – no promises with keeping this rule. As you know, rules are like long uphill paths for me. I find them too tiring to follow! (But I promise, I will try my best!)
- Nominate three bloggers each day.
This first quote was first uttered to me by a legend. At least back then, in the baby-teeth weeks of uni life, she was a legend.
She was sprawled in cannabis bliss across the impossibly narrow beds of the University’s halls of residence, sucking a stonking spliff, and letting the grassy smoke dance a mambo of flexing, heady revolutions about her face.
Armed to the roach with insouciant slurs, she weaved yarns of her worldly journeys. She spoke of her treks through the jungle, the seasonal rains thundering down turning pathways into streams. She spoke of living with tribes in their villages among them, dancing their dances, cooking their food, learning their ways. She spoke of learning history and meeting people and visiting incredible temples. Through her footsteps, she had improved life for those less fortunate; building shelters, giving money, publicising the crises. Her words were needles of inspiration. We have one life to see this great blue-green marble swirly-gig we call home, and try to make a difference, in whatever little way we can.
“But really, me?” I asked. “A gossamer sproutling of a person—how could a fleck of a person, like me, ever have the confidence to step foot outside the norm like you have?”
Chugging ganja like a choo-choo, eyes half shut, she spoke the words that have stayed with me for so many years:
“It is the things you don’t do that you regret more than the things you do.”
It took one whole year. One whole year of scraping and living on the cheap, and not drinking, not spending, but it didn’t bother me, because one year later, I had pulled together enough to make a tender, young thought into a thriving fully-fledged reality.
I had a half-purse budget, an old banger and a navy blue two-man tent across my shoulders—and on the 7th July 2007, I opened my door, and my foot finally stepped outside the norm.
This marked the beginning; the moment when my goal posts moved to encompass the entire world. Anyone can do it—even a gossamer sproutling of a person on a half-purse budget. I have not regretted a single footstep, not even the muddy leech-infested ones, and she was the legend who tempered my outlook.
HOWEVER, and it is a fairly significant, however. I do not suggest that this quote should be blindly followed—after all, if my dear friend still smokes those stonking spliffs, she might well have something to regret in a decade or three!
Great quote !!👍👍👍👍
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Do you smoke?
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Nope, with a HUGE capital N 🙂 Do you?
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Bleughhhh! Nooo! Disgusting and it stinks !
Glad to know 😊
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And bad for you.
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Exaaaactly! 👌
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I don’t wanna have regrets later, so I am doing what I can now 🙂
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That’s great news 😊😊😊
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Thank you so much for the nomination! Now that’s two… but this one I will do, just for you, La Presidente!
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I feel so privileged. 😊😊😊 thank you!
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You’re welcome… Um, Nandita told me your name is Rumi. Should I call you that? instead of She? I want to get my friend’s name right especially when she’s the president.
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I’m sorry, I don’t know a Nandita. My name definitely isn’t Rumi. Perhaps she misunderstood. She is perfect for now😊 maybe I will change my mind soon, as you know, misbehaving presidents do! 😊😊
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Okay… hmmm I’m sorry for the misunderstanding. It was probably me.
Anyway, I’m happy to know you whatever name you choose to be called! She is perfect. 😉
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She is great. For now 😊😆😆
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She IS great. That is to say, you are the She that is great in She is great, or if I were saying it, I’d say ‘she, She, is great.’
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😂🤣😂😆 you crack me up!
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I haz tha humorz. 🙂 Seriously, I’m glad I’m making you laugh.
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You certainly contain a fair amount of comedy tea fiend friend😊😊😊😎
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I’m full of silliness. 🙂 ❤
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I LOVE it!!! 😊😊😊😁😁😁
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Fantastic! I like you!
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😂🤣😂😆 I like you too! You are a sweetheart to be sure!
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I’m chuffed! ❤ 🙂 *blushes a little*
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😁😁😁😉
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❤ 🙂
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Love conversing with you. Wish I knew more about you. You are a lot of fun!!!
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In time you shall know more. I think you’re fun too!
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Like, Like!!!
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Me too. 🙂
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This was a wonderful read! I agree with everything you said about Novus! Thank you for the nom. I love quotes. I will participate on my soliloquy blog.
So glad you stepped outside … 😘
Keep going you charming girl, you!
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😊😊 what a beautiful comment! Yes Novus is a fine lady indeed! I have a lot of respect for her😊 nom was my pleasure😊😊 can’t wait to read them😊
I am delighted I stood outside too!
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Muuaah!
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😆😊😊😊
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Loved this…..
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Thanks😊 you are so kind.
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I’m not that kind, but your writing is amazing 😁😁😁
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Thank you very much. That means a lot!!! 🤗🤗🤗
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My pleasure 😊😊
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[…] I was nominated for this by my fellow Tea Fiend Mutual Admiration Society president and friend She. […]
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Sent a mail
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Will try to check tomorrow if I can 😊
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[…] I was nominated for this by my fellow Tea Fiend Mutual Admiration Society president and friend She. […]
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[…] I was nominated for this by my fellow Tea Fiend Mutual Admiration Society president and friend She. […]
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This quote is literally my motto now, absolutely and completely true. 💜
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I only ever heard it from my friend, but there is a lot of truth to it! I wonder where she found it?
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Indeed, alot of truth.
Now I’m wondering where she found it too xD
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It will forever be an enigma. She was indeed a well traveled lady. Who will ever know!
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Well then I guess, “Some mysteries aren’t meant to be solved.” 😊
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True
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Awesome quote!
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Thank very much 🙂
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